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Vulnerability and Dating

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 At the last dating workshop I taught, several people expressed the thought that they couldn't bear to date again. 'I just can't take any more hurt,' lamented one woman. A man complained, 'Putting myself out there only to get shot down another time is too much heartache.' Letting yourself be vulnerable is risky. Yet, it is the only path to love. If you don't open your heart and allow yourself to be vulnerable, you close yourself off to love. There are ways to make vulnerability easier in dating. Here are some tips on how. 1. UNDERSTAND THAT GUARDING YOUR HEART DOESN'T WORK. As people date, they can experience heartache and vow not to be vulnerable again. Some put up walls to try and protect their hearts. This sets them up for failure. When Mary picked Jack to marry, because he loved her more than she loved him, not only did she settle but she falsely assumed that this was a guarantee against heartbreak. Unfortunately, this assumption didn't hold up....

You Do Have A Soulmate

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  Right now, there is a soulmate earmarked JUST FOR YOU. I do not care if you are 50 pounds overweight. It does not matter if you worry you are over the hill, and fear that love has passed you by (untrue) You do not need to have a lot of money or a happening career to welcome in your soulmate. You can be handicapped or chronically ill. STILL, you get love! Start getting used to the idea. If you have abandoned hope for love, then feel the flames of that hope being fanned back to life right now. Read on to find out more of why you get love, how to welcome it in and even how to have it just show up at your door without your needing to get "out there." There's Someone for You - start finding hope again OPEN UP to the possibility that you have a soulmate out there somewhere, living and breathing right now. In this cynical society, it is easy to be a skeptic, to think that love is only for the lucky. This makes many singles feel desperate, and this energetic is not conducive to...

The Search For a Soulmate - The Reality and the Illusion

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Marriage is one of the oldest institutions created by man. An old proverb says, "Marriages are made in heaven and consummated on Earth." It is widely believed that God creates human beings in pairs from the same soul and everyone has his or her soulmate in this world. The true love is about discovering your soulmate in this world. Thus for every person, there is a unique soulmate and it is the destiny of the person to search his or her soulmate. The concept of soulmate is quite romantic and interesting as every person who falls in love indeed feel that he has discovered the soulmate. The lovers believe that they are made for each other or they are two bodies and one soul. Thus often people refer love as an act of the union of souls. Yet all love may not lead to the union of soul as only the souls of the Soulmates can be united. This concept is explained in the most beautiful manner in book "Brida" by world famous author Paulo Coelho in the following words And when p...

Investigative Report - Dating Scammers - How They Work and How You Can Avoid Them

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Dating scammers know exactly how to capitalize on human weakness, where to find their "marks" and how to make your fantasies into their paydays. Here's how Regardless of the dating or matching, or even which Social Media website you choose, you will undoubtedly run into dating scammers. They are present even on the most legitimate websites that make every-possible effort to screen and eliminate them. Their only goal is to find new "marks"-people who are anxious to establish a relationship. Once they target you, they will be patient, careful and appear to be looking for precisely what you are. Don't be fooled. The only thing they are seeking is your money and they have a seemingly-unending repertoire of ways to get it. How scammers work... Dating scammers primarily target older people between 40 and 65 years of age. Your profile on the website tells them everything they need to know to target you, especially if you are anxious for a relationship, that you pre...

Dealing With Dating Scammers

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Dating scams have become quite commonplace in the online world today. With more and more people turning to chat, dating and social networking sites to meet people and find romance, crooks and scammers from all around the world are licking their chops at all the available opportunities they now have. Though it seems no networking site is entirely immune, many are now finally taking the matter seriously and implementing more elaborate security measures. Nevertheless, scammers are becoming more and more sophisticated as well, finding and exploiting any available loophole. The only way to finally and totally quash this problem, if indeed it will ever be entirely quashed, is to bombard the online world with warnings and information. When we can rid the Internet of naïve victims, perhaps then we can finally rid the Internet of these foul perpetrators. Although there is a lot of recent talk of Nigeria and the Ivory Coast, the reality is these scammers (I refrain to call them scam artists, as ...
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  Red Velvet for Your Valentine (Culinary.net) On the sweetest day of the year, a day full of flowers, love and sweets, Valentine’s Day is the ultimate opportunity to try a different dessert meant for two. It’s hard to resist a perfectly blended, rose-red, luscious Red Velvet Mug Cake. It’s the perfect size, with just a handful of instructions, and it’s easily cooked before your eyes in the microwave. That’s right, the microwave. This mug cake is a simple way to make something delicious and keep the portions small. Whether you have a small party, just you and your loved one or just simply want something easy and small, this quick treat is designed just for you. Start by mixing all the dry ingredients into a large mug, including flour, sugar, cocoa powder, baking powder and salt. Then add milk, melted butter, vanilla and red food coloring. Use a spoon and stir the ingredients together until blended. Mix powdered sugar and cream cheese then drop the mixture into the ca...

What Is Self Healing Meditation Techniques? How You Should Adopt It?

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  Meditation generally has been demonstrated to benefit people in lots of ways. It is a truly remarkable process. Another great thing about Self-Healing Meditation' is you will obtain much better chakra energies in your system that could also enhance your wellness. Set a timer so that you don't need to interrupt your meditation to verify your watch. As previously mentioned, meditation is often viewed as a means to relax and it is. Learning meditation wants the assistance of an evolved teacher. There are several types of meditation to choose from and lots of approaches to understanding how to do them. Again, different methods of meditations need various methods of breathing. It has now become recognized as a powerful tool for stress management that you can easily integrate into your daily life. The healing meditation should be performed through visualization. You may use any very good breathing methods; in case you already know. There are lots of techniques you may utilize. It i...