True Love Is Hard to Find

There's a myth out there that true love is hard to find. And rather than get into a debate about what true love is and whether or not you can actually find it, I'm going to offer you a way to find true love and just invite you to try it for a month or two--what's the worst that could happen? You might not find your true love; however, you might just find an amazing love.

So, what I'm proposing is using the law of attraction to attract your true love to you. The law of attraction is the idea that like things are attracted to each other, and this includes "vibrations", which is to say moods and paradigms. So, if things agree, then they work in harmony, and if they don't, then they clash. In this context, the law would suggest people who say "true love is hard to find" have never been in "vibrational harmony" with true love or someone they could truly love. By which we'd mean that these people through their thoughts and emotions held themselves back from truly seeking what they want--because they just don't believe or feel that they could ever have that kind of love.

Many people are skeptical of the law of attraction because it's a new age woo-woo spiritual idea, but I would recommend that you suspend that belief because if you think about it every time in your life that your emotions or beliefs on a matter shift, the things around that matter shift. For instance, if you find out your spouse is cheating on you, it alters both your beliefs and emotions in such a way that you're guaranteed a different stance toward them, which they'll necessarily have to react differently to--though, this isn't to say that either party will magically become not themselves, they'll react as they'd react to you being different with them than you normally are. And in this context, if you're generally cautious and shy with people you're attracted to, this isn't because you're cautious and shy with everything in life, but just in some areas of your life. (I'd be willing to bet you're not nearly as cautious and shy with your pets, houseplants, going to sleep, your friends, your relatives, or other things--so, if nothing else, there's a gradient of detrimental response.)

How do you use the law of attraction to find true love? Basically, you need to do whatever you can to alter your beliefs and emotions such that you can have the love that you want. To do this, you need to find and replace the negative thoughts and emotions with positive ones. The easiest way to do this is through repeated imagination work over the course of a few weeks or a month: imagine what you want in a true love. Figure this out in detail. Next, imagine yourself having this true love as if it were actually happening to you. You'll notice as you do this that negative beliefs and emotions pop out at you (probably the same ones that hinder your actions, e.g. I'm not good enough for her, she's far too beautiful for me, what would she want me for?, etc.). Take note of these: they're the beliefs and emotions that are hindering you from accomplishing your goals. Now, you need to do whatever you can to either make each of those things false or stop believing and feeling them.

Once you overcome these, then when you take action, you'll see vastly different results--just imagine how much easier it'd be to talk to people you found very attractive if you were more confident in yourself and realized how great of a deal the other person's getting by dating someone so wonderful as you. Otherwise, why should they pick you? Desperation? So, last hint on the blocks: the worst block is the block that you shouldn't think highly of yourself, but think about this honestly: if you don't think you're worthy of love, then aren't you doing them a disservice by even trying? What a sad way to think about things: love is about mutually inspiring each other. Being there together. And if you're looking for true love, then they ought to be with someone just like you because of how well you fit together.

To do this, rather than doing all the steps in one sitting, take your time with it. Do each step until it's done, even if you have to revisit the same step for many days in a row taking only as long as you need; however, if you decide you want to recalibrate things, just start over. Ideally, you'd spend fifteen to thirty minutes a day working on this. Take your time to do things properly, be kin to yourself, true love will be worth the effort!